The Process of Creating a Healthy Lifestyle
The purpose of this book is to share information that can help people understand the process of how people create and live with a dysfunctional life, and how to create a healthy life. We spend a lot of time and energy learning how to be successful in making money and having what we call fun. However, the healthy lifestyle is rare today because we have been programmed to believe that success and happiness is about making money, and all the physical things that come with making money. That is the good life that everyone chases. Much of our attitude towards life and living are about the job, making money, and creating the good life. There is nothing wrong with making money, and enjoying the good life. However, individuals often sacrifice loving relationships, lose their sense of self along the way, and this will always lead to emotional problems. Life then gets out of balance and one will experience big life stressors. There are a lot of people living with a lot of psychological discomfort and the only thing they know is to medicate it. The important things in life are loving relationships that begin with loving oneself. Love is the cornerstone for creating real meaning and purpose, and a very strong reason to live. Ignoring the important things as love and loving relationships, creates painful feelings and emotions that create an empty life experience. We then go through the motions of living, and this is the beginning of a full blown dysfunctional life, and we do this all in the name of success!On the other hand, one can change their dysfunctional life to a healthy life by learning how to create an effective thinking process that can result in developing an effective personal philosophy. This creates our view of the world, our reality, and we make decisions according to our reality. This view must always be fine-tuned if one is to effectively navigate through the stress and strains of living, and to grow spiritually. Otherwise, we wander aimlessly without direction, purpose and meaning, and are prone to make bad decisions that lead to more painful experiences. This then becomes a life never lived and the creation of the accidental lifestyle. Few people are able to engage in this process of creating a healthy life because this process of change is dependent upon living with an effective thinking process and most people live with a flawed thinking process. Healthy means creating healthy boundaries, having the right to say no; managing your time; having healthy hobbies; have time to spend with love ones; and having time to take care of you. An individual living with these qualities will have more time, energy and love to give to others, and thus, get more love and attention in return. The spin off benefits; include lasting meaning; significant loving relationships; passion; fun and enjoyment; and these qualities as a whole create hope and a healthy vision. We can learn to experience these, but only if one can create an effective thinking process. What kind of life do you want?