How to stop hurting the ones we love

This is not your typical self-help book. It challenges mainstream self-help narratives, offering a fresh, possibly world-first approach to loving, communicating, tolerating, and perceiving people and situations with greater serenity and gratitude.

Unlike many other books in the genre, this is a purely practical guide—free from spirituality, mysticism, and trauma narratives. Just clear, straightforward advice for improving relationships, regardless of one's background or walk of life. It’s an exciting and transformative read for anyone striving for more harmonious connections.

It helps replace anger, drama, expectations, demands, and fights, with serenity, tolerance, positivity, and gratitude. Without relying on complex terminology, the book explains how to efficiently reduce—and even eliminate—tension from interactions. When frustration disappears, communication and relationships naturally become more fulfilling and beautiful.

The book can contribute to personal and professional growth in a world that increasingly rejects aggression, negativity, and intolerance. These principles have stood the test of time and will likely continue to do so. Insights that could have saved countless individuals from emotional distress and abuse.

Author Bio

Adrian Carter is a trained counseling therapist dedicated to exploring human relationships, emotional well-being, and personal growth. In his book How to Stop Hurting the Ones We Love, he challenges conventional perspectives on conflict and healing, advocating for a shift away from pathologizing differences and toward understanding and connection. Drawing on his expertise in practical psychology and interpersonal dynamics, Carter offers insights that encourage self-awareness and healthier relationships. His book has resonated with readers around the world and has already been translated into nine languages.